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  • grepe@lemmy.worldtotumblr@lemmy.worldThanks Mom
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    2 months ago

    you are technically right… but, i mean… comments like this are the reason why this is not a place for any serious discussion. you just have to find any crack or disambiguity to attack and destroy anyone you disagree with, don’t you?


  • grepe@lemmy.worldtotumblr@lemmy.worldThanks Mom
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    2 months ago

    Do you think them having kids would change that perspective?

    yes, i do. i don’t doubt there are some actual abusive parents out there but many more of the conflicts between kids and their parents is caused by the kids having their child perspective. and sadly, mentally developing to the point where the understand what their parents are going through typically takes longer than it takes for the relationship to be destroyed. therefore it is mostly up to the parents to keep it together but they are just people. and their kids talking shit with other kids about them surely does not help…


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    2 months ago

    those people clearly don’t have kids of their own.

    the mom is not “having beef” with you kid, she’s lost her life and her mind and cracked.

    and the dad was on his third mental breakdown that day looking for anything to rationalize why he’s hyperventilating.

    it was not the kids fault and any parent taking it out on their own kid is fucked, but they are not irrational monsters either.


  • i mean each of the individual programs that can load your keepass keyring is a password manager.

    the keyring itself isn’t a password manager and the main reason why i use it is because each of the individual programs that i actually use to open it (keepassxc on windows, keepassdroid on my phone, keeweb hosted on my vps on other devices…) can use the same file with the same specification that is shared everywhere.

    i’m not bound to any particular program with a particular set of features. just use anything that can open that file format from a place where i choose to host it.


  • grepe@lemmy.worldtoSelfhosted@lemmy.worldFully self-hosted password manager options
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    3 months ago

    keepass

    it’s technically no password manager but an encrypted file format.

    there are dozens of apps that will work on any platform, including soft keyboard with “password” button for smartphone that will just work everywhere and browser extensions, static website, apps that allow you to use your yubikey to unlock and anything else. you can host your vault anywhere including a google drive or your own webdav or ftp server and keep local copies on your devices synchronized…



  • I went through depression before and I got out successfully. I know where I am and I know what I need to do to get out. I recognise that the biggest problem is self-delusion and all the cognitive biases that make me feel miserable and powerless… there is also a difference between subjective and objective reality.

    I also tried a few dead ends on my journey and I can confidently tell you that the thing you wrote above is not only not helpful, but can be harmful to people that are in a bad place and cannot see through it. People that don’t know any better and spew bullshit like this (or worse, drank their own kool aid) are one of the reasons why it is so hard to get better in a world we have… so cool T-shirt bro, have a nice day!


  • mhm… and what if you just had a kid and moved away from helping family to a country which thinks that paid medical leave or reasonable parental leave are luxuries not worth having? have you ever tried to get more than 3h of sleep in a row while taking care of a newborn? good luck going for a run after that! if it also happens to be a winter you may need to wait until spring for that sunlight too. good that we at least have parental groups to socialize… unless you are stay at home dad that is, cause trying to talk about restarting your career after the break might not sit well in a group that mostly connects on how their childbirth went…