Oh this wasn’t my first! That was last week. It was very bittersweet, none of us arrived but we were brutally honest to eachother throughout. It was kind of endearing and cute.

No regrets about that one really.

Yes sir, will do.

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You both are absolutely right. I’ll force myself to cool down and postpone today’s arrangement.

I do try to keep things grounded but the past month has been a bit much.

Stay safe out there comrades.

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BAHAHA yeah, agree 100%

if you’re the bottom look up info about douching or other ways to ensure you are clean down there

I come from a culture where bidet showers are the norm. I know all about it.

Probably won’t do anything down there for a while.

This is all very reasonable. I ask for testing but don’t poke and prod for an official certificate or date. The recent history stuff absolutely makes sense to ask, I am usually awkward anyways so I am not bothered by being awkward and will definitely ask, thanks for that.

The first guy I met, we did use protection for anal stuff but for the rest it was usually just oral and kissing. I am considering getting prep aswell, but just hesitant since I have already a lot of side-effects to contend with and don’t want to risk more. I’ll talk to the clinic about it.

As for drugs, yes I have 0 tolerance, especially the illicit ones you mentioned. I made that clear in my profile, but it’s good to be reminded of these things.

Actually took a shot the first time, it was not a wise decision.

Yup, that’s my overall goal. I am not much of a fan of complete strangers anyways, and would like to get to know people.

Thanks for this. I do try to remain as reasonably safe as possible, and told my friends to hold me back if things get a bit much.