I think it’s the opposite, she’s a relationship anarchist and I can’t cope with this kind of relationship and how seemingly little importance I have in her life sometimes. I could do poly with a primary partner, but not RA.

Fuck, I was kinda doing alright, making friends, getting out, part of a big kink/group sex community, then I met my current GF, I haven’t been to a sex party in months, I feel miserable 50% of the time, honestly most difficult person I’ve ever been with because of the way she sees life and relationships, wondering if I should break up with her.

Only thing is I think I’m fooling myself Re how miserable I was

Woah! That’s so cool dude! How are the Bluetooth and Nvidia drivers on that… ;)

Nah, it’s just annoying seeing it in SO many conversations. It doesn’t add anything to the conversation, it’s just some weird bragging.