• Secret Music 🎵 [they/them]@piefed.blahaj.zoneOP
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      Definitely. It’s the gateway. And a complete fantasy apart from maybe a few well off influencers living the dream without abuse and other.

      But I mean, you just need to delve into mainstream social media occasionally to see what the men on the manosphere side of this reactionary conservative movement really think and openly say when they’re attacking feminist pages daily.

      Any gen Z women that get lured across the line from cottagecore to tradwife are in for a hell of a fucking time with these broccoli top little nazi gen Z boys.

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    LOL, since fucking when did a woman who could tend farm ever wear dresses like the one on the left (more than, like, once in her life on her wedding day or something)?

    Help manage her husband’s antebellum plantation, maybe, but fieldwork? Hell, no.

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      The cartoonist probably looked at some old family photos, saw his grandmother dressed up for a formal portrait, and thought it was everyday clothing. Early photographers used to keep nice clothes on hand for customers to pose in, so the clothes may not even have been hers.

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    Ya know, I’m not so sure that the old comic is necessarily just criticizing flapper girls. The way I understand the bottom text is “These are the qualities that women of these generations need to have to make men want to marry them”, so I think it’s also saying that the young men nowadays have wacky tastes as well.

    If you want to be even more charitable, which is probably undeserved I know, there’s nothing explicitly written in the comic to indicate that the artist thinks one side is necessarily better than the other, just that things are different now than they used to be. It’s possible that it was created by a young guy who thinks the stuff on the left is lame and old fashioned and the stuff listed on the right kicks ass.

    Fuck the manosphere though.

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      I see no criticism in the comic at all. Young men of the previous generation wanted the girl on the left, now they want the flapper. It’s just a comment on how far and how quickly society was changing 100-years ago.

      Also, if the artist were making fun of the flapper they wouldn’t have drawn her as so attractive. Maybe it’s just me, but she’s leaving me hot and bothered. :)

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        I think thats a part of the cultural shift. Back then, the way the “flapper”(ive never heard that term, what does it mean?) was dressing was provacative, and by drawing her that way they are attempting to shame her i believe. They are listing what these women are able to do, and from the authors perspective, women NEED to be able to do things on the left. Whereas its a mans job to do the things on the right. Theyre also trying to say that the new generation can’t effectively manage a household, which I personally find hilarious, because the author clearly missed the entire point. Women were fed up with being forced into traditional wife roles. They werent interested in “running the household” any more, which the author seems to not understand.

        In a way its a good thing that our society has changed so much its difficult to even tell that the authors goal was sexism. That brand of sexism is so alien now that most people dont even realize its supposed to be sexist, and instead just comes off as cool.

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          “Flapper” was a 1920s subculture of women that was, well, exactly what’s pictured. The original etymology is unclear, as far as I know.

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      Yeah, that happens a lot with regressive nutjobs. They’ll describe utopia as if it’s the apocalypse and assume you’ll agree with them.

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      I would say that the point is this kind of sentiment from the manosphere, for example just these quotes by Andrew Tate:

      Look familiar? Good for you if you get to live your middle upper class cottagecore dream with a hipster lumberjack that brings home everything you’ll ever need. That definitely sounds pretty awesome.

      But mostly this is about control and power of men over women, especially for women that aren’t in the economic class to get to have shelves of unread books and the luxury of spending all of their time doing arts and crafts and making tiktok videos.

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          I understand the sentiment but also, I should think a community called “Witches vs Patriarchy” would actually involve the “vs Patriarchy” part and not just be another [email protected]. And Andrew Tate is like everything wrong with the patriarchy rolled into one and one of the poster boys for it these days. So it comes with the discussion.

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          Yeah. For a long time I had no idea who he is, cuz’ I wasn’t on Facebook and Twitter I suppose. I only found out when he got in trouble in Romania, and I regret finding out.

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        Not OP but I still don’t get how this is related to the post. (Not defending any of those statements of course)

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          Im not super clear myself on OPs comment, but I believe they are just making a connection between what the comic is trying to do and what andrew tate is trying to do. Both are trying to demonize women, but due to the comics age it simply falls flat in the modern age.

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      I see it as a commentary on how quickly times were changing back then. What’s telling is what some are reading into it.

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    Honsetly the flapper is the kind of gal I’d be looking for anyway but there is nothing wrong with the gal on the left either. It’s almost as if individuals should be left to make their own choices.

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    I dunno, this doesn’t feel the same as more contemporary commentary.

    There’s no overt judgement call on display in this cartoon. Like pointing out that the older generation looked for women who could sew/cook, but the younger generation looks for women who can dance and mix drinks, isn’t inherently saying that one is better or worse than the other. It feels more neutrally observational.

    Comparisons that we see these days, have pretty overt messaging as to the negatives the author sees in some social trends. Like comparing a virginal trad wife to a slutty gender fluid rainbow, and saying the rainbow will be bored with you in bed cause she’s had so many miles of dick that she barely notices yours.