• epicstove@lemmy.ca
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    23 hours ago

    Honestly in my social circle “Dude” has basically become gender neutral.

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      19 hours ago

      Dude, man, bro, and “fellas” have all become gender neutral to me

      Edit: come to think of it not only has “bro” become neutral, but “bro-sephanie” has become something I use for guys.

    • LwL@lemmy.world
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      21 hours ago

      “Bro” is gender neutral for me. Though I still try to avoid it with transfems I don’t know very well (which is… all except one) since I can’t know if they’d tell me if it makes then uncomfortable. Since even if you know how it’s meant it can still feel bad.

      One of the very few things where I’ll change how I interact with a transfem vs a ciswoman