• SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 day ago

    Nobody (including you) should put other peoples’ feeling above your own

    I kinda see where you’re coming from, but I wholeheartedly disagree.

    You should never put your needs below anyone else’s, but I’d argue that it’s very healthy to mildly inconvenience yourself in order to avoid majorly inconveniencing or hurting others. In fact I’d say that’s kind of the entire cornersone of human civilization.

    • Refurbished Refurbisher@lemmy.sdf.org
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      1 day ago

      Yes, and every time someone is bothered by my language, I change my language specifically for them, like how I call my transfem friends by their name instead of saying “dude”, etc.