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WillStealYourUsername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days ago

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Hey sis, you're looking ruley great today!

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WillStealYourUsername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days ago
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  • SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Is it weird that I’m a Trans girl and I still use dude like so much?

    And yet when other people use it for me, I feel like I have to ask how they meant it 😅

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      Neuroplasticity is a thing, but it takes time and vigilance for changes to happen.

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        Oh I don’t see it as a bad thing. I’m just saying it’s ironic.

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      It’s a little inconsistent, but don’t beat yourself up too much. Language is complicated and slow to change, same as our usage of it.

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        but don’t beat yourself up too much

        Oh don’t worry, that wasn’t the spirit of my comment at all. If anything, I started using dude after my egg cracked. It fits with the chill, tomboyish image I have of myself.

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          I feel that, it was drilled into me in the 90s and I just it for most people as well.

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      dude isn’t gender neutral?

      • SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        It really depends 😅

      • stebo@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        ayo your avatar moves??

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          oh yeah you get that with lemmy pro. if you upgrade to lemmy pro+ you get an animated banner for your profile too!

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            You guys have avatars?? (I’m on voyager so idk what I’m missing on desktop)

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