For masculine identifying folks, what were the things you did (or had happen to you) that you feel helped you transition into adulthood and find fulfilling community?
Statistics suggest that a large number of men feel isolated, unvalued by society, and dysfunctional, but it’s not 100%.
Never be afraid to ask questions.
Learn from your mistakes, but it’s a lot easier to learn from others mistakes.
To me, masculinity means integrity, honesty, and decency.
Articulate your boundaries clearly and respectfully. Also understand your boundaries.
I’ve worked with a ton of working class guys who seem rugged on the outside. Most are reasonable and respond well to kindness and inquisitiveness.
Learn to ask inquisitive questions about someone’s life, and they’ll respond well and open up easily.
It’s easier to focus on what’s practical rather than getting mired in abstractions.
Just a few things off the tip of my brow.