• V0ldek@awful.systems
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    6 months ago

    The thing with IVF is that it’s already incredibly weirdly eugenicist.

    Like, read some of the parameters they’d screen you for if you wanted to donate sperm. You get bonus points for having a PhD? I’m sorry? You’re looking for a better-educated sperm?

    And when you apply for IVF and choose a donor you get their education and job. “I want my cum to be a pilot!” The fuck.

    • Jonathan Hendry@iosdev.space
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      6 months ago

      @V0ldek @sue_me_please

      IVF isn’t required if fertility concerns or frozen eggs aren’t involved, they can give you the home game.

      And it should be no surprise that sperm banks want to be able to compete on the “quality” of their donors.

      Just watch out for the bank that is 75% doctor jizz but it’s all from the proprietor.

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        A fertility doctor here in Sweden took sperm from men who were undergoing investigations for infertiliy and used it as donor sperm.

        Imagine their surprise when decades later they found out they had kids.

        Not sure why he chose those particular samples, maybe all he had available.

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      6 months ago

      I think it’s understandable. Intelligence is partly hereditary and people want clever children. Education and job can give you at least an overall idea of the person you’re having a child with. It’s kind of weird anyway to have a child with someone random, isn’t it?

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        6 months ago

        It’s kind of weird anyway to have a child with someone random, isn’t it?

        In my mind “being inseminated by” is like 1% of “having a child with”, if that. It’s probably the least consequential thing your father may do in your overall upbringing.

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            6 months ago

            OK, you could in principle have made that sound worse, for example by saying “females” like a goddamn Ferengi, but still, pretty impressive.