Transfem folk tuck with tape to achieve a smooth groin area, transmasc folk use tape to achieve a flat chest.

Duct tape is seriously the wrong tool and can cause serious damage. “Trans tape” or “KT tape” are the right thing to use.

Stools are a great solution!

The bathroom thing just illustrates that we don’t accommodate kids in our society. There are probably more kids in the population who could use low sinks than you see because our public spaces are so hostile to them.

It’s more common in Europe (e.g. Sweden) for folks to bring their kids everywhere, and the physicality of those locations accommodates them because they are more present.

The bathroom argument that you made is akin to saying that folks shouldn’t feel entitled to bike lines / safe sidewalks because our cities were designed for cars and sidewalks and bike lanes are expensive for a tiny percent of the moving population.