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Cake day: June 16th, 2023

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  • Wow there’s a lot to unpack there. I think the author has some old assumptions and expectations that are holding her back.

    Men don’t show off women anymore because they aren’t objects.

    Also the language she uses to describe her interactions and dates implies she wants to be pursued and for men to make all the initiative, so she could probably fix her own problem.

    This feels like the ranting of a woman who has been aggressively pursued most her life and now that attention is waning.

    The Men didn’t go away, the active hunting of the 90s has gone away though. Also, people don’t have the money to have obvious awkward early dates at upscale restaurants.