declutter by getting rid of one item in each of several seperate areas that have stuff I could get rid of

I keep forgetting i dont usually haggle so much these days once I’ve realized what I value things at. Thanks

Regardless of its ubiquity, its never ok

I kinda want to add $100 to my “purchase price”, 1/2 it, and add like $25 to haggle down from

Other people are not your problem, if she has any negative effect on you and those close to you, really recommend cutting her loose and later if you want to give her another opportunity, you can try again after everyone’s grown up more

Its a crazily cosy murder mystery show if ever there was such a thing

Bavarian was my uninformed take on it

It has the nutrients I crave

What is a sandwich if not a bread salad?

Its seems a steelman is making the other person’s argument stronger before tearing it down whereas mine seems to be airing out the inconsistencies/taking it down a peg (but not false things like Strawmen) before conceding the argument or its outcome is ultimately compelling to me

Its like my logical side is having a mild tantrum that theres all these ridiculous things about it even tho I end up sort of buying whatever they are selling. Like a reverse-order “I accept but here’s why I shouldn’t”

Edit: tearing it down before conceding to it

They know where its at. I would say yes to getting to sleep in a well-upholstered coffin every time

I wouldn’t keep it on tho, its still light and less is more at night

Red is seriously relaxing once you get used to it. Look at a dark room for photo development, relaxing and soothing as fuck, the lighting is

Dark paradise

Ya, dont do big overhead lights, get

a lamp or three color smart Hue bulbs + hub

start playing around with colors and get an app that lets you take a photo and change the lights to the palette from the images, this is a good way to learn how to manipulate color and ligting

Her voice and inflection was so perfect, like Siri level

To what extent are you still involved with those you resent?

Honestly, it might be best to be away for a while and figure out if you even want them in your life and if so, what needs to change to help ensure there’s not gas being poured on the resentment and ongoing harm occurring.

You gotta figure out what’s best for you and to do that, you sort of need to find the rules necessary to help you stop similer behaviors and people in the future from recreating those harms and to level up the way you signal to others for how you are to be treated.

Next time you feel a reaction or unexplained intense feeling, try to figure out when it arose and what it was in response to. Try to expressit as I need x but got y and think about what can be requested or enforced to ensure it is corrected, althonyou will likely want a therapist or at least ask dispassionate audience for key issues and try to focus on just the facts so you can learn to make sense of these situations better

Its gonna be a little temporary pain and awkwardness as you find your bearings but it will improve basically every area of your life and help you more gracefully deal with relational challenges, at the end of the day tho, you have to be prepared to communicate what you need and expect and understand that some relationships that are fundamentally antithetical to that will not and shouldn’t survive you pursuing these things.

Why do you feel resentment, towards whom?

Shocking 🤣

Can this take die already? Be glad it ismt Shitter and hush. When enough people are on Mastodon maybe they’ll use that too. Don’t lose sight of the prize. Simple, expressive messaging is an absolute must

Get away and music bathe back to baseline