having some similarities does not make them identical. having all similarities makes them identical. having one community generate traffic and distractions with memes does make a big difference.
both communities should coexist. siphoning users from one to another community is a dickmove. however, i expect most users to be smart enough to just join both. i think a 3 day ban is not the end of the world, especially since you make it sound like your only input in their community was advertising for another community. i guess nothing of value was lost on that front and it had a nice side effect sparking this discussion.
i think posting your issue in this community here is also a dickmove.
maybe you should contact the mods privately and talk with THEM on that matter. i think your comment was phrased fairly and did not really say “hey, leave this community and join us!” - so i think it is worth trying to find a solution.
having some similarities does not make them identical. having all similarities makes them identical. having one community generate traffic and distractions with memes does make a big difference.
both communities should coexist. siphoning users from one to another community is a dickmove. however, i expect most users to be smart enough to just join both. i think a 3 day ban is not the end of the world, especially since you make it sound like your only input in their community was advertising for another community. i guess nothing of value was lost on that front and it had a nice side effect sparking this discussion.
i think posting your issue in this community here is also a dickmove.
maybe you should contact the mods privately and talk with THEM on that matter. i think your comment was phrased fairly and did not really say “hey, leave this community and join us!” - so i think it is worth trying to find a solution.