Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 个月前I'm hungrylazysoci.alimagemessage-square16linkfedilinkarrow-up1420arrow-down117
arrow-up1403arrow-down1imageI'm hungrylazysoci.alLady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 个月前message-square16linkfedilink
minus-squareSemperverus@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6arrow-down10·30 天前This person sounds incredibly selfish and entitled. I bet they’d expect you to be the one buying the snacks too.
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up7·30 天前It’s ok to have boundaries. That’s not selfish.
minus-squareSemperverus@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down4·30 天前Ultimatems aren’t boundaries.
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down1·29 天前An ultimatum is you have to do x. A boundary is “I won’t do x” I won’t go on a trip if there’s no snacks. Some people will phase ultimatums as boundaries to manipulate, but this isn’t that.
This person sounds incredibly selfish and entitled. I bet they’d expect you to be the one buying the snacks too.
It’s ok to have boundaries. That’s not selfish.
Ultimatems aren’t boundaries.
An ultimatum is you have to do x. A boundary is “I won’t do x”
I won’t go on a trip if there’s no snacks.
Some people will phase ultimatums as boundaries to manipulate, but this isn’t that.
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