For context (if you’re a sane person and not extremely online), researcher William Costello recently did a simple, anonymous Twitter poll. Men and women were invited to rate pictures of British singer Olly Murs when he was huskier vs. when he really hit his gym goals and became legitimately shredded.
I didn’t read it like that!
The main issue is that I (and likely many others) work on something we don’t want only because some dude told us women like that. Exercise is one thing, but “8 pack abs” is another