This reply by @[email protected] on the original post may help someone here:

Imperfect Allies Aren’t Enemies

• Critique to build, not tear down
• Organize, don’t just argue
• Movements win, not individuals
• Perfection is the enemy of progress
• Ego kills movements
• Plan for the long game
• Meet people where they are
• Power doesn’t care about feelings
• Division is a weapon used by elites, don’t play along